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Teen Stands Up by Facing Down Stereotypes
By Martha Lepore
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Caption: Kelvina with Teen Quest High School
Principal Tracy Thompson |
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Stereotypes can be good," Kelvina told her classmates. "Like
when someone tells you, ‘You’re the kind who’s
good at math.’"
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And there are bad stereotypes, like when someone finds out you’re
from Compton and thinks, ‘You’ll never amount to anything,’" she
says.
A black neighborhood of Los Angeles,
Compton has many lower-income residents and a history of crime
and racial tensions.
Kelvina comes
from Compton.
However, she is facing down the Compton stereotype.
She has already convinced her classmates, teachers and the principal
of Teen Quest
High School at the Toussaint Teen Center (TTC) that she will
amount to something.
During a presentation of her senior project, "Stereotypes
and How They Affect My Life," the 18-year-old challenged her
listeners to think of times when they had been stereotyped, how
they felt and what they did about it.
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Because of my skin, I don’t have many picks (choices)," she
said. "I know stereotypes are going to be there all my life.
I see my future in a very positive way, though – I just have
to work hard. I’ve learned that life is how you live it,
now how you look at it."
Moved by her presentation, Principal
Tracy Thompson asked Kelvina how she dealt with her stereotype
of white men when she saw her
Teen Quest teacher Jeff.
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With him I overcame my stereotype of whites very gradually. Now
I look at Jeff," she pauses for a moment, "I look at
him like he has no color, he’s just clear. I see him as someone
who cares about kids."
Going further, Thompson said, "I
look at this presentation as an opportunity for the people in this
room to grow. My next
question to you is, how will you deal with
institutional racism?"
Kelvina thought a bit. "It exists," she
said. "I’ll
just have to accept it."
Thompson noted, "As an educated black man, black people say
to me, ‘You sound white, you sold out,’ and white people
tell me, ‘It’s hard to believe you’re the principal.’
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You’ve just reminded me that you can’t bow down to
how another person defines you. You’ve helped my motivation
to go forward. So I challenge you to help me and Jeff teach more
adults and educators about stereotypes. Will you do that?" he
asked.
Kelvina said, "Yes I will."
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